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How to Pose for Family Photos / Central Coast Family Photographer’s Guide to Real, Epic Moments

Worried about getting the perfect pose for your family photos? The pressure to look pitch-perfect, keep the kids calm, and somehow capture everyone’s best side can feel overwhelming. But what if I told you that the best family photos aren’t about posing at all?


family having fun on beach


Let’s be honest—trying to get kids to sit still and smile on cue is like trying to catch the wind. Add in the stress of making sure everyone looks “picture-perfect,” and suddenly what should be a fun experience feels like a chore. The truth is, focusing too much on the perfect pose can actually take away from what makes family photos so special.


So, how do we get those natural, love-filled moments without the awkwardness of posing? Well, it starts the moment you reach out. From the very beginning, I’m focused on making sure this session feels like you. We chat, I get to know you, and you fill out a fun questionnaire to help plan the most epic session tailored to your family.


Next, we pick a meaningful location—a place where your family feels comfortable and free to be yourselves. Whether it’s the beach, your favorite park, or even your backyard, the setting plays a huge role in keeping things relaxed and authentic.


And then there’s the fun part—activities! Including activities that your family loves is key to keeping the kids engaged and distracting everyone from the camera. Instead of stiff poses, I use prompts like, “Let’s play a game,” “Can you give Mum an Eskimo kiss?” or “Who can run the fastest?” These little prompts help create real, candid moments that reflect what your family’s love and connection truly feel like.


The focus is always on the experience—making sure you’re not just getting photos, but having a seriously fun time together. The result? Photos that don’t just show what you looked like, but how much love and joy you felt in those moments.


This family session on a beautiful Central Coast NSW beach, we threw out the rulebook on traditional poses. The family wasn’t focused on getting everyone to sit still or smile perfectly—they were too busy having fun. From chasing paper airplanes to laughing together, every moment was filled with the joy and love they share. The result? Photos that reflect what it feels like to be part of this family, not just how they looked on that day.


Haley said it best:

“I am absolutely blown away. We’ve been wanting family photos for ages, but my husband and I aren’t fans of posed shots. When I showed him Nikki’s photos, it was the first time he agreed to give it a go. The session was fun, easy-going, and Nikki made us feel so comfortable! The photos go far beyond our expectations—she captured our family in real, raw moments, just being ourselves. We couldn’t recommend her more highly.”


daughter on mums shoulders


So, if you’re stressing over how to pose for your family photos, don’t. It’s not about looking perfect; it’s about capturing the real, raw, epic moments that make your family unique. Let’s make sure your next family session is one you’ll actually enjoy—no posing required.




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